Have you ever been involved with a guy where you’d describe it more like a love hate relationship? You quickly fell in love with him when you first met, but as time went on you came to realize that he or the relationship wasn’t all that it was cracked up to be? Yet you “love” him so much that you claim…
It’s unfortunate how often people are mistreated in what they believe to be a healthy relationship. For many reasons, they assume that this negative treatment is somehow something they deserve … something that everyone goes through. The truth is it is not okay for someone to treat you poorly. Whether you’re in a relationship where you’re being cheated on, taken…
The other day I received an email from a reader and she asked me for love advice on how she could get this man she was presently dating (and liked) to fall in love with her. The only problem with that was that he wasn’t really the greatest guy. He didn’t treat her well, rarely returned her calls, and only…
Alone time… this subject matter came up a few weeks ago while I was giving a client advice on relationships. Her and her boyfriend had been dating for a little over two years and she felt as if things were changing for the worst. When they first got together they did everything together (except use the bathroom), and she loved…
I remember a time when dating a younger man was out of the question for me. Just one year younger seemed somehow “wrong”, then one day I realized that I was being far too ridged and narrow in my approach to finding love. After this change in perspective I decided it was time to open my horizons and give dating a…
How often do you stop to think about what real love is? You probably have an answer that includes a whole range of things… kindness, feels good, sex, snuggles, playful moments, someone to listen, shared values and life goals… But is this what love is all about? The truth is, sex doesn’t mean love, nor does having fun and playful…
Chemistry is nice, feeling excited, in love and enamoured with another person is one of the most exhilarating things we can experience in a relationship. The lusting, chemicals running wild, the feeling of being wanted by someone can feel incredible and even addictive… Though as much as this can feel good at the onset of a new connection, these are…
