The natural and sometimes painful stages of mending your heart What starts, often ends, and relationships are no exception. Sad as it may be, few are those who find true compatible love with the first person they ever fall into a relationship with. Most of us go through a number of breakups before we find a lasting match, and some…
In an age obsessed with the romantic ideal, most single people are searching for love and, not uncommonly, in all the wrong places. I know many women who devote invaluable years of their prime to men that are largely unsuited to them. And whether they go down the path of serial dating or long-term relationships, they often hit a dead-end…
“Only Love Can Hurt Like This” is the name of a Paloma Faith song I heard on the radio this morning as I was getting ready to head to the office. The lyrics got me thinking about love and relationships. About how song lyrics–like so many other things such as advertising and social network threads–can push us into thinking about…
Don’t go crazy wondering, know for sure with these tips There is nothing quite like the early stages of dating! So much unknown, so much promise, so much heart racing newness! But it’s not always easy to tell if a guy likes you, right? I personally have a love/hate relationship with dating, why? Because dating is like walking into a…
Perhaps logically you know that there is no age limit to finding true love. Yet, I find that subconsciously (and even consciously), quite a few of my clients over the age of 40 feel that either; their biological clock is ticking, which creates an immense pressure to find a match, or they suppose that it’s too late for love –…
I used to live with a lady who I love dearly, we’re still great friends to this day. I will never forget though, how bewildered I was that she would religiously apply fake tan to her already naturally olive skin. She didn’t feel attractive enough without it and thought that her new boyfriend would not desire her as much if…
We all know that flirting can be a great way to attract men and is also a fun way to boost your confidence and make you feel desirable, even it is largely superficial. Flirting with a guy you like can also give you a peek into his personality, sense of humor and intellect. The only problem that some of my…
The journey to finding true love can often be a roller coaster. There can be so many ups and downs due to often uncontrollable factors, such as; relationship and intimacy fears, differing core values, communication style, confidence, long-term vision, interests, sexual compatibility, and a whole other gamut of factors. No matter who you are, we all have personal challenges, which…
I’ve come to find that one of the mistakes women make in relationships early on, is allowing things that disturb them about a man’s behavior to go unaddressed. They’re so anxious to find true love that they’ll often overlook or pretend to overlook behaviour that really gets under their skin and goes against their core values. The methodology seems to be that…
Have you ever been in an unhealthy relationship, but despite all the red flags being thrown your way, there was just something about this particular person that got you hooked, having you believe that there will never be someone else quite like them? Even with the persistent doubt you felt, you still wanted to believe it will work out in…