The natural and sometimes painful stages of mending your heart What starts, often ends, and relationships are no exception. Sad as it may be, few are those who find true compatible love with the first person they ever fall into a relationship with. Most of us go through a number of breakups before we find a lasting match, and some…
Are the highs and low of finding love murdering your love life? If you’ve been dating for a while you’ll probably know that dating and love don’t necessarily go together as easily as you’d like. Sure, dating could spark love but let’s be fair, it doesn’t happen all the time. No matter how hopeful and optimistic you are, the dating…
No matter who you are, or how many therapists you’ve seen or workshops you’ve attended, everyone experiences fears and insecurities around relationships. So tell me, could my closet-fears be yours too? Have a read and let me know in the comments at the very bottom of the page. So here we go..GULP… A few years ago I came to a…
5 Terrible Reasons You’re Staying In An Unhappy Relationship Knowing when a relationship is worth saving or ditching… Do you sometimes feel like you’re not getting as much from your relationship as you’re putting into it? Do you feel like something is missing, gone, lost forever, or was never been there, to begin with? And yet you stay in this…
When you’ve given out as much relationship advice as I have, you come to learn a lot about people and how they experience love. What I find in common with many of my clients and people who read my blogs is heartbreak and the impact it has on their lives. Everyone has had their heart broken at least once or…
Healing from a break up can take time. Whether you or the other person was “at fault” or ended it, you invested time and energy into cultivating a relationship with this person. This means, it’s only natural that it will take time for you to be ready to get back on the horse again. For some women, this may only…
To even think about a new relationship after an unsuccessful one can be a scary thought. Whether you went through a bitter divorce or you’ve just come out of a short term relationship, finding love again after a breakup can see you running for cover and have your palms sweating with fear. Sure, you may want love again, yet, the…
I have not met a person who has not felt some level of emotional pain in the face of love. Sometimes it can feel as though you’re in love-poop and you have no idea how to get out of it. No matter how evolved you are, no matter how much love you have for yourself, a relationship breakdown or a…
There was once a time when I dated a guy who seemed to be the ideal man for me. We had the same taste in almost everything. We seemed to want the same things. We listened to the same music. We could spend hours upon hours just talking, reflecting, and we also had a great physical connection. Everything seemed perfect… and…
There are tons of articles out there that say you should never ever take your ex back because you’ll just be repeating a past mistake. Get over a breakup and move on! But then again, it’s also possible that another try is all you need to work out your differences and create a wonderful relationship. I’ve personally not had success…