No matter who you are, or how many therapists you’ve seen or workshops you’ve attended, everyone experiences fears and insecurities around relationships. So tell me, could my closet-fears be yours too? Have a read and let me know in the comments at the very bottom of the page. So here we go..GULP… A few years ago I came to a…
5 Terrible Reasons You’re Staying In An Unhappy Relationship Knowing when a relationship is worth saving or ditching… Do you sometimes feel like you’re not getting as much from your relationship as you’re putting into it? Do you feel like something is missing, gone, lost forever, or was never been there, to begin with? And yet you stay in this…
Don’t watch the years pass by attached to your comfort zone Staying single today is much easier, much more acceptable than it was, say, a hundred years ago. There are people for whom the single life suits their lifestyle — because that’s the way they like it. But many more stay single because they are afraid of commitment. Of course,…
A good friend of mine called me over the weekend in tears. The relationship she was in was on the brink of ending and without her having to explain too much about the situation I could clearly see what had happened. You see, my friend Viv has a pattern that she runs in her relationships that creates huge problems. Her…
Why meeting a stranger is easier than you think What men really want is a question as elusive as what women really want. We’re all used to hearing stereotypes like the one about men loving with their eyes and women loving with their hearts, but these stereotypes just won’t do if you want to capture the attention of a stranger.…
Hit the mark in your love life by doing these things Every human being needs regular interaction with other humans to thrive. Whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert, the fact remains – we’re all social beings. This is why having some powerful relationship guidelines up your sleave will give you the edge you need to cultivate a heart-fluttering and…
What if I told you that the main reason that you’re still single or in an unhappy relationship is because you don’t know how to trust yourself? Who wants to hear that? No one really wants to know that perhaps they are greatly contributing to their dating or relationship frustration. Heading bangingly annoying! It’s supposed to be easier than this,…
Do you ever wonder – What’s the secret to finding true love? How to make him want you? How do you get a guy to fall in love with you? These are all legitimate questions that singles ask about dating, love and relationships, and as you search for the answers online, in books, and from others’ experiences, you are typically…
Perhaps logically you know that there is no age limit to finding true love. Yet, I find that subconsciously (and even consciously), quite a few of my clients over the age of 40 feel that either; their biological clock is ticking, which creates an immense pressure to find a match, or they suppose that it’s too late for love –…
I used to live with a lady who I love dearly, we’re still great friends to this day. I will never forget though, how bewildered I was that she would religiously apply fake tan to her already naturally olive skin. She didn’t feel attractive enough without it and thought that her new boyfriend would not desire her as much if…
