Men and women ultimately want to love and be loved and even though there is often talk about the battle of the sexes, both parties have a lot in common. In my latest video I share something that both men and women value, yet sometimes battle with. Women use more words than men per day, this means that sometimes we…
Last Friday, my laptop broke down just as I was putting the finishing touches on an article. I switched to my PC, but, would you believe it, my PC was also playing up and the article had not backed up to the cloud – it was lost, for good! After some minutes of wanting to pull my hair (and a…
Are you a woman who’s genuinely searching for love yet despite your best efforts you find yourself still single? Or maybe most of your relationships fall into the same unhappy pattern? If that is your case, there is a very very good chance that your mind is wreaking havoc and boycotting your love life. Sound strange? Well, the thing is…
In an age obsessed with the romantic ideal, most single people are searching for love and, not uncommonly, in all the wrong places. I know many women who devote invaluable years of their prime to men that are largely unsuited to them. And whether they go down the path of serial dating or long-term relationships, they often hit a dead-end…
Healing after a breakup can be difficult, especially when the relationship was significant and meaningful. Not only are you dealing with the grief of “losing a loved one”, but you’re also inundated with the fear that comes with starting over and living life without them. It may even feel as if your heart and mind are going through an internal…
No matter who you are, or how many therapists you’ve seen or workshops you’ve attended, everyone experiences fears and insecurities around relationships. So tell me, could my closet-fears be yours too? Have a read and let me know in the comments at the very bottom of the page. So here we go..GULP… A few years ago I came to a…
Don’t watch the years pass by attached to your comfort zone Staying single today is much easier, much more acceptable than it was, say, a hundred years ago. There are people for whom the single life suits their lifestyle — because that’s the way they like it. But many more stay single because they are afraid of commitment. Of course,…
A good friend of mine called me over the weekend in tears. The relationship she was in was on the brink of ending and without her having to explain too much about the situation I could clearly see what had happened. You see, my friend Viv has a pattern that she runs in her relationships that creates huge problems. Her…
Why meeting a stranger is easier than you think What men really want is a question as elusive as what women really want. We’re all used to hearing stereotypes like the one about men loving with their eyes and women loving with their hearts, but these stereotypes just won’t do if you want to capture the attention of a stranger.…
Have you ever caught yourself having an internal boxing match? You know what I mean, those moments when instead of lifting yourself up and believing in yourself, you have unkind thoughts about who you, or who you should be! For example; Maybe the man you like isn’t giving you the attention you want, and instead of remaining confident and unaffected,…
