One of the biggest mistakes that women make in relationships is changing themselves for a particular guy. I think it is safe to say that there are things that we can all change about ourselves. Whether it is our need to control things or our emotional insecurities that keep us from loving ourselves, but I don’t believe that we should…
Alone time… this subject matter came up a few weeks ago while I was giving a client advice on relationships. Her and her boyfriend had been dating for a little over two years and she felt as if things were changing for the worst. When they first got together they did everything together (except use the bathroom), and she loved…
Imagine that your best friends’ husband calls you to let you know that his wife, your best friend, has been in an accident. He tells you that even though she’s safe, she’s a bit rattled, and he thought that she would love to hear from you. So, what would you do? Text her or call her? Now imagine that you really…
Have you ever wondered if a deeply loving relationship can exist without emotional intimacy? If you have, I’m sure you’ve come to the conclusion that it can’t. Emotional bonding is what distinguishes casual from serious relationships, or an unfulfilling one to a fulfilling one, there’s hardly any question about this. We tend to feel closer to people with whom we…
I remember a time when dating a younger man was out of the question for me. Just one year younger seemed somehow “wrong”, then one day I realized that I was being far too ridged and narrow in my approach to finding love. After this change in perspective I decided it was time to open my horizons and give dating a…
How often do you stop to think about what real love is? You probably have an answer that includes a whole range of things… kindness, feels good, sex, snuggles, playful moments, someone to listen, shared values and life goals… But is this what love is all about? The truth is, sex doesn’t mean love, nor does having fun and playful…
Ask any guy in the dating world and he’ll tell you that he has encountered at least one woman who has played some downright confusing games with them. Many women don’t realise that the games women play can actually spoil an otherwise perfect relationship. What may seem like a little bit of fun with a clear motive for the woman,…
There was once a time when I dated a guy who seemed to be the ideal man for me. We had the same taste in almost everything. We seemed to want the same things. We listened to the same music. We could spend hours upon hours just talking, reflecting, and we also had a great physical connection. Everything seemed perfect… and…
Chemistry is nice, feeling excited, in love and enamoured with another person is one of the most exhilarating things we can experience in a relationship. The lusting, chemicals running wild, the feeling of being wanted by someone can feel incredible and even addictive… Though as much as this can feel good at the onset of a new connection, these are…
A “Princess Mind” Can Ruin Your Chance of Finding a Love Match
September 22, 2014Are you a self-proclaimed princess? Or are you the more quiet princess type, looking for the prince charming who’ll sweep you off your feet and proclaim his love for you to all and sundry? The type of prince who will take you away into his castle where he’ll spoil you with gifts and stories of his conquests? In theory, being the…